Chapter 1: Weather
How do you see Benjamin’s idea of “weathering” playing out in the experiences of women? Reflecting on your own experiences or observations, how do you think people cope with “acute crises” (such as losing a job or a loved one) versus “chronic stress” (like ongoing financial struggles or societal pressures)? What impact do these crises have on women’s well-being?
Chapter 2: Hunted; Chapter 5: Exposed
Benjamin challenges us to reflect on how we determine who deserves respect, justice, and care. She describes how marginalized people are often watched but never truly seen. How do societal norms and personal biases shape whose struggles we empathize with and advocate for? Can you think of historical or contemporary examples where women have been excluded from justice and dignity or deemed unworthy of care? How can we affirm the value of women’s lives in our community?
Chapter 4: Grind
Benjamin challenges the idea that rest is a luxury and suggests it should be a basic part of life, not something we have to "earn" or escape to. How does this perspective connect to the experiences of women, especially those balancing work, caregiving, and other responsibilities? How might society need to change so that rest is truly seen as essential rather than an indulgence?
Chapter 5: Exposed
1. The passages highlight the alarming disparities in maternal and infant health, especially for Black women, and ask what a world with equal access to healthcare would look like. Why do you think that maternal and infant health is an indicator of overall community health? How can we better prioritize the health of mothers and babies? What changes—whether in hospitals, policies, or communities—are needed to ensure all mothers and babies receive equal and quality care?
2. Benjamin says that vulnerability is a natural part of being human, not a weakness. Yet, many people – especially women – are expected to hide their vulnerability. How do societal expectations force women to wear “masks” of strength? Can you think of historical or contemporary examples where women’s vulnerability has been either punished or embraced? What would need to change so that people – especially women – can be open and honest without fear of being judged or harmed?
Chapter 6: Trust
In the excerpt, the phrase 'If you were my family member, I would...' is used to build trust between healthcare providers and patients. How do you think the concept of kinship, or being treated like family, can affect the patientcare experience? Why is it important for patients, especially those from marginalized communities, to feel seen and cared for in this way? Have you even been the recipient of this trust in a medical setting? How did it make you feel?
Think about what you’re good at. How can you use your abilities to help create a more just and compassionate world? What are some small, everyday actions you can take to make a difference in promoting justice and equality? Write down one action you can take based on your strengths that will contribute to viral justice.